Hello everyone,
Most people have a letter that they wrote to their future wife or husband, any from something humorous or satirical to sweet, sappy love letters to people they may or may not have met yet. Even I myself wrote one a while back; but I thought, I've never seen a letter to someone's future boyfriend.
So I wrote one to mine.
---
Dear Future Boyfriend,
At this point in time, I don't even know if you exist yet. I hope you do, because frankly, I'm really lonely. I hope we meet soon. Maybe we already have... what do you think of me? I bet I think you're great.
I want you to know that I'm okay to take it slow or to go quick. I want to do whatever makes you comfortable because if I'm happy and comfortable with you, I trust God will guide us in our relationship exactly how we're supposed to go.
I also want you to know that sometimes I'm not the most emotionally available. I try to be, but sometimes I shut down. Please try to be patient with me, and I'll be trying my hardest to patient with you for whatever you're going through.
I want you to know that I'm okay to take it slow or to go quick. I want to do whatever makes you comfortable because if I'm happy and comfortable with you, I trust God will guide us in our relationship exactly how we're supposed to go.
I also want you to know that sometimes I'm not the most emotionally available. I try to be, but sometimes I shut down. Please try to be patient with me, and I'll be trying my hardest to patient with you for whatever you're going through.
I will help you and stand by you whenever you need me. Whatever hardships you have become my hardships too. I will hold your hand so you know that I'm not going anywhere.
If I ever get stupid, tell me. If I say something hurtful, tell me. I might be upset at first. But I want to know when I've hurt you so I can come to my senses and change a wrongdoing and hopefully never do it again.
Whoever you are, please understand that I have a lot of baggage. It's slowly getting better, but I want you to know that I won't judge you for whatever baggage you have. We can take turns carrying it for each other, and hopefully let it go altogether. You can't run when you're holding suit cases.
When we hit a road block, let's pray about it. God will guide us, I trust that with my whole being. I need you to, too. We cannot let our relationship come before our faith; but you will always be in my heart and mind while I talk to God and put him first.
Please be open in boundaries with me. I go through phases where I am very touchy-feely, and phases where I don't touch, and I don't want to be touched, so I understand the importance of communication and placing boundaries. Please tell me. I care.
I hope that we stand the test of time and pass with flying colors. I pray that someday, even if it takes time, we get married. I don't want either of us to break each other's heart. But on the off chance, if for some reason we don't work, please know that I appreciate you and the time we shared.
We don't have to do fancy, traditional dates, unless you want too. I'm easy to please, and I will listen to whatever you say and formulate an entire list of things you love until I come up with a million date ideas.
I love the stars and count them when I start to feel lonely. It makes me think of you, and when you'll finally end up in my life. The stars assure me that I'm not alone, that you're not alone, and that someday we'll be not-alone, together.
And I can't wait for that day.
With so much love,
Your Future Girlfriend
If I ever get stupid, tell me. If I say something hurtful, tell me. I might be upset at first. But I want to know when I've hurt you so I can come to my senses and change a wrongdoing and hopefully never do it again.
Whoever you are, please understand that I have a lot of baggage. It's slowly getting better, but I want you to know that I won't judge you for whatever baggage you have. We can take turns carrying it for each other, and hopefully let it go altogether. You can't run when you're holding suit cases.
When we hit a road block, let's pray about it. God will guide us, I trust that with my whole being. I need you to, too. We cannot let our relationship come before our faith; but you will always be in my heart and mind while I talk to God and put him first.
Please be open in boundaries with me. I go through phases where I am very touchy-feely, and phases where I don't touch, and I don't want to be touched, so I understand the importance of communication and placing boundaries. Please tell me. I care.
I hope that we stand the test of time and pass with flying colors. I pray that someday, even if it takes time, we get married. I don't want either of us to break each other's heart. But on the off chance, if for some reason we don't work, please know that I appreciate you and the time we shared.
We don't have to do fancy, traditional dates, unless you want too. I'm easy to please, and I will listen to whatever you say and formulate an entire list of things you love until I come up with a million date ideas.
I love the stars and count them when I start to feel lonely. It makes me think of you, and when you'll finally end up in my life. The stars assure me that I'm not alone, that you're not alone, and that someday we'll be not-alone, together.
And I can't wait for that day.
With so much love,
Your Future Girlfriend
No comments:
Post a Comment